Gilbert Presbyterian Church answers Jay Nunley’s call

 
Fron the Synod of the Trinity January News Letter
Posted January 25, 2018 in Featured News

 

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Jay Nunley speaks during Children’s Time with Jaelyn Blofsky and Zachary Rutledge at Gilbert Presbyterian Church in West Virginia.

Many pastors have taken round-about ways to reach their calling. However, Jay Nunley may have one of the more unique paths to the pulpit, a journey that has happened quickly and that has also occurred in a rather unorthodox way.

Jay is currently the lay pastor at Gilbert Presbyterian Church in Gilbert, WV. He has been preaching most Sundays there since his service of affirmation in late October. Jay does not preach on Sundays when there is communion because he’s not ordained. In fact, Jay has not spent one day in seminary (he’s not even a college graduate), nor has he completed CRE training. But despite the holes in his pastoral resume, Jay has made a strong connection with the people at Gilbert.

“Jay’s kind and gentle nature, his concern for the people in our congregation, his desire to get to know folks in the community, and his powerful messages led us to know he was just what we needed,” said Debra Burgess, an elder and chair of the Worship and Nominating Committees at Gilbert Church. “We refer to him as ‘our gift from above.’”

“It’s all a great big surprise to me,” Jay added. “Really, getting a call in the first place is a great big surprise to me. I always felt like I was the exact wrong guy to be a pastor of any kind.”

Jay may be better known to those in the southern West Virginia town of Logan as the general manager of WVOW radio, hosting his own weekday-morning radio show called “What’s Your Opinion?” He became interested in radio at the age of 15 and went on to work specifically in rock and comedy circles. He was so good at his job, that after his junior year at Marshall University he accepted a lucrative job offer at a station in Charlotte, NC, as a 22-year-old.

“I was on the night show (at Charleston) and I had gigantic ratings,” he said. “Charlotte came a callin’ with more money than I ever thought I would make.”

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Jay Nunley receives the laying on of hands at his affirmation service in October 2017.

Making a name for himself on the airwaves as “Big Poppa,” Jay bounced around the country, landing jobs in places like Chicago, IL; Tallahassee, FL; Hartford, CT; and Corpus Christi, TX; just to name a few. Jay will admit that during this time he was not close to God, and the death of a close friend to a drunk driver didn’t help his mindset.

“I was a purveyor of hedonism. That was what my life was focused on,” he said. “I was as far away from Christ as you can be and still be alive.”

While growing up in Logan, Jay had been attending Hard Shell Baptist churches with his parents, but by the time he was in his early teens, his parents drifted away from going to church, and that was just fine with Jay who didn’t mind following suit. Jay’s parents would eventually find church again, landing at the First Presbyterian Church of Logan, WV. When Jay came home to visit, he would attend there with his parents, but it wasn’t something he felt drawn to. That changed in 2001 when Jay landed a job in Charleston, WV, and he began attending First Church of Logan more frequently.

“That’s when things really started to turn around in terms of my faith and in terms of the Presbyterian Church in general,” Jay recalled. “There were a couple of pretty amazing preachers, minsters of the Word and Sacrament, that really helped me along the way.”

He recalled a sermon on Matthew 25 (“the least of my brothers and sisters”) by Murray Paige that, for Jay, “was like getting punched in the face.” It made him realize that there was a new direction his life needed to take.

“That specific sermon, that specific moment, any doubts I still had, any leanings away from church or from religion in general that I had had just went away,” Jay recalled. “All of a sudden it hit me like a thunderbolt that all of this is true. Christ is king. Christ is the savior. I don’t have any merit. I stand justified through Christ.

“That was the day, if there was one, when I became both a full-fledged follower of the way and a Presbyterian all at the same time.”

Oddly, the death of his sister to a brain aneurysm in the middle of the night helped Jay find the right path, which is interesting considering the loss of his close friend had the adverse effect.

“That death of my friend drove me further away from Christ and religion, whereas the death of my sister brought me back,” he said. “I watched my parents’ beliefs sustain them through the worst thing that can happen to a parent. That changed me – my parents’ example of showing me the way.”

Jay remained active in his church for the past decade while continuing to do radio, both of which are in the small town of Logan. Then, just a few years ago, he felt another tugging that he couldn’t ignore.

“I started to feel and hear a call to ministry,” he said. “I have to be honest, I never knew what a call like that was. I didn’t recognize it for what it was at first. I tried very hard to ignore it because I didn’t want to do it. I didn’t feel like I was ever going to be a person who was qualified to be anybody’s pastor.”

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Jay Nunley, right, takes part in Gilbert’s Operation Christmas Child program.

At the time, CRE Jim Musgrave was an interim serving at the First Church of Logan, and Jay went to him with what he was experiencing. Jim confirmed what Jay was feeling and urged him to follow that call. Jay eventually became an inquirer with the Presbytery of West Virginia, which allowed him to begin the steps to becoming a pastor. Eager to speak, Jay was permitted to preach for Jim at First Church of Logan on a fill-in basis, helping Jay to not only get his feet wet but also to allow others to hear his sermons.

“I cannot describe what that was like,” Jay said, recalling his first service, “beyond that I have never felt more like I was where I was supposed to be. The congregation reacted overwhelmingly positive.”

Jay continued to preach occasionally at First Church of Logan when he got a call from nearby Gilbert Presbyterian Church, which has not had a settled pastor for several years partly because it can’t afford a full-time one. Jay was asked to preach for that congregation in March of 2017, and the response was so positive that they wanted to keep him as their regular pastor.

“I had never been in their building before,” Jay said of the Gilbert Church. “I walked into that building that Sunday morning and immediately felt like I was supposed to be there, like I was in my own home. As soon as I walked into that sanctuary, there was something telling me that this was where I was supposed to be. And the congregation reacted to me the same way I reacted to them.”

Jay continued to fill in open dates at Gilbert Church throughout the summer and it soon became clear a connection was being made. Gilbert Church made known that it wanted Jay to be its full-time pastor, but that simply wasn’t possible because of Jay’s lack of training and ordination.

However, through an agreement with the Presbytery of West Virginia, Jay can preach three or four Sundays a month as a lay pastor, with the other Sunday when communion is served falling on the shoulders of someone else who can officiate the sacraments. The presbytery has also assigned Bill Hudson (pastor at First Presbyterian Church of Williamson, WV) to be Jay’s mentor, who, along with Kevin Geurink (pastor at First Presbyterian Church of Logan), meets weekly with Jay to study the lectionary and discuss pastoral practices.

“Here’s a situation where a congregation needs somebody, and I need a congregation, and the presbytery needs a solution,” Jay said. “The idea that all of this came to be through random circumstance is clearly God’s hand at work.”

Jay, who recently landed on session at First Church of Logan, currently does all the pastoral visits for the sick and shut-ins at Gilbert and heads up some programming there.

“It is an unusual and maybe unprecedented situation, but I don’t know how else small churches like Gilbert are going to stay alive if not for trying something new,” Jay said. “There’s a responsibility that I have to do well for this congregation so that maybe other small congregations can do something similar as a solution to their problem of not being able to afford or not be able to get a full-time ordained minister.”

Because Jay still holds down his full-time job at the radio station, he won’t complete his college credits for his regents degree (one given to adults for work-life experiences) until the fall of 2018. And since he can’t go full-time to seminary, it could be many years until he is officially ordained. But Jay is committed to complete all the steps to make himself the best pastor for Gilbert Church that he can be.

“It happened so fast and so strongly and so deeply, I’m still honestly taken aback by it every day,” Jay admitted. “These people are family, and I think they feel that way about me.”